Beauty’s Darker Side?

Why is hair removal such a mystery subject?

There’s hardly any information in the beauty books on my shelf (and I have a fair few as a health and beauty writer) and my local library turned up not a single paragraph on hair removal in their collection. Amazon has a few books on it in their huge collection but they are mainly aimed at professional beauty therapists.

It’s no wonder that many girls suffer the misery of unwanted hair and think they must be freaks when it’s really the norm to have some you want to get rid of – about 80% of females apparently want rid of some facial or body hair.

Sephora beauty book

The Ultimate guide to face, hair and makeup brings up nothing with a search for hair removal...

There are volumes written on applying blusher the right way but hardly a word on getting rid of a mustache – and I think facial hair removal wins hands down in the instant beauty improvement stakes.

Still at least we have the Internet to guide us these days, or so we think. But do be careful because there are also a whole heap of sites out there with as much misinformation as solid advice.

Always check what you read before you proceed with several sources especially if you are thinking about buying a product to remove hair that promises a pain free and permanent solution. There is no such thing!

There are solutions which are pain free such as hair removal cream but they are not permanent. And there are solutions such as electrolysis and laser hair removal which will remove or reduce hair growth permanently, but they are definitely not pain free (bearable but not pain free – blame all those nerve endings in your skin).

So keep your scam detectors wired up when you see ads for products and you should be OK.

Reasons and Treatment for Excessive Hairiness

This is a thorough medical article by PDR health outlining the many causes of hirsutism (or excessive hairiness in women) including various medical conditions which can cause excess hair growth and over 15 medications which can create the condition.

The article also describes how hirsutism is diagnosed and how it might be treated both by self care and medical treatment and follow up.

If you suspect that your unwanted hair problems are caused by a medical condition or medication, check out the article first before looking for hair removal solutions although in most cases you need to remove hair growth in the usual ways as well as treating underlying causes.

Excessive Hairiness

More Ashamed of Unwanted Hair These Days?

I read an article today that said we we seem to be finding more and more things to be ashamed of especially in the U.S. and that this new trend includes hair removal along with our weight, our acne etc.

But  I think it’s not a new trend, by any means, to be ashamed of our perceived physical imperfections.

30 odd years ago I was certainly not too fond of my crop of teenage spots and unwanted hair. Luckily time moves on and  I grew out of the acne and found easy solutions to deal with the hairy bits.

Even Jane Austen’s heroines knew where they stood in the beauty stakes,  and how that might affect their attractiveness to husbands, although they may not have been able to run off and have laser hair removal, a nose reshaping or breast augmentation and do something about it.

Perfection is not required for people

Perfection is not required for people

So looks have always been important – maybe it’s just that now we have a whole heap of images of the beautiful people wafting in front of our eyes day after day and the girls never have mustaches nor the boys hairy backs.

The more that we all strive to look good by removing hair and other so-called imperfections, the more it becomes the norm to do so. It’s not just the beautiful people – “everyone” is doing it.

Should we stop trying? No, I don’t think so. It’s good to care about grooming and make the most of yourself. It only becomes damaging where obsession takes over. You don’t have to remove every hair on your body to be attractive, nor do you have to look like an air brushed star on the beach. Take care of yourself but don’t go over the top.

Hair Removal Through the Winter

Lots of women don’t worry too much about hair removal through the winter, figuring that everything is nicely hidden under layers and layers of clothing.

But actually it’s quite nice to keep removing hair if you can be bothered

You’ll reap the benefits by feeling good about your body at all times. You’ll never have to worry about stripping off to try on clothes in a communal changing room. Or looking like the only gorilla at your aqua-aerobics class. And you’ll be ready for a hot date should hot dates be on the horizon.

Continue your beauty routines through the winter

Continue your beauty routines through the winter

And one added benefit is that if your chosen method of hair removal is often gradually weakening and thinning your excess hair. This is the case with those methods which pull the hair out from the roots – notably waxing, threading and using epilators. Your skin will get desensitized to the process of pulling out the hair too and you’ll find you get less redness, fewer red bumps and fewer ingrown hairs over time.

By continuing to remove hair throughout the winter, when your limbs are covered, even with a once a month process, you will find it much easier to remove your unwanted hair in the summer when you want to go bare in a hurry.

Hair Removal : You’re Not Alone

It seems that as many as 80% of women and 50% of men have to cope with unwanted hair in some shape or form.

Although women have removed unwanted hair for decades while men just shaved their faces, it is a relatively new but growing phenomenon for men to remove body hair.

Today, salons report that between 35% and 60% of their clientele are male.

But does removing hair make any difference to how attractive you are?

Well it certainly seems that way for women. Experiments have shown that women with body hair are viewed by both males and females as less intelligent, less sociable and less happy.

Images in magazines have a lot to answer for

Images in magazines have a lot to answer for

For men, the jury is still out – except where hairs between eyebrows (the “unibrow”) and on shoulders and backs are concerned plus those pesky hairs sprouting from nose and ears. Any more is probably unnecessary but hair is often removed to show off good musculature (body builders have a task and a half here) and for sexual reasons.

The bottom line is that, no matter what anyone else thinks or believes (and different cultures view body hair in different lights anyway), the need for hair removal is purely personal.

If removing hair makes you feel better than not removing it then you’ll go through the hassle of waxing, shaving, depilatory or laser hair treatment. And the more you dislike that excess hair and the more attractive you feel without it the more hassle you’ll be prepared put up with!

One thing is certain the more images we see of beautiful people in magazines and on TV the more we compare ourselves unfavorably with them and want to do whatever it takes to achieve a similar super sleek smooth body. Of course, we don’t always have the money or dedication it takes to succeed but more and more of us are trying, visiting spas and salons and spending more and more on hair removal.

So if you’re trying to get rid of hair, you’re in good company.